如何分辨知己和普通朋友

時間：2024-09-15 10:43:49 學人智庫

如何分辨知己和普通朋友

　　When we were young, we used to think that having a lot of friends is a cool thing. Well, it may be nice to have a lot of friends but when we are starting to mature, we’ll realize that having true friends is more important than having a lot of fake friends.

如何分辨知己和普通朋友

　　當我們年輕的時候，常會覺得擁有一大幫朋友是一件很酷的事情。其實，有許多朋友確實不是一件壞事，可是當我們慢慢成熟起來的時候，我們就會意識到，擁有幾個真正的朋友比擁有一大堆狐朋狗友更為重要。

　　True friends accept you for who you really are while fake friends only like you for certain reasons because they could just use you or they are only friendly to you because they only need something from you or they see you as beneficial.

　　真正的朋友會接受最真實的你，而虛假的朋友為了能夠利用你，只是為了某種特定的原因才喜歡你。或者他們與你結交只是為了從你這一獲取某種東西，又或他們認為與你結交有利可圖。

　　Sometimes you meet your true friends at the most unexpected times while you meet your fake friends in common situations.

　　有時候，恰是在最意想不到的場合下我們與真正的朋友相遇，而虛假的朋友總是出現在平常的場合。

　　True friends would tell you straight up what they dislike about you or if they have any problem with you while fake friends would rather say false appreciation to you.

　　真正的朋友會直白的告訴你，他們討厭你的小脾氣，告訴你如何惹惱了他們。而虛假的朋友則會說些虛假的討好話給你聽。

　　True friends envision their future with you while fake friends don’t even see their future with you.

　　真正的朋友把你融入自己對未來的設想之中，而虛假的朋友根本看不到你在他們未來的生活里。

　　True friends ask you how you are after a long time of not being with each other while fake friends don’t even remember you.

　　如果你們有很長一段時間沒有見面，真正的朋友會問你好不好，而虛假的朋友根本不會想起你。

　　True friends want you to be happy while fake friends want to see you miserable.

　　真正的朋友希望你幸福，而虛假的朋友希望你生活悲慘。

　　True friends remember the smallest details about you while fake friends only remember some of your “basic” details.

　　真正的朋友會記得你最細微的癖好，而虛假的朋友只會記住關于你的基本個人信息。

　　You could talk to your true friends about anything that you want to talk about while you become selective with the topics that you opt to talk about with your fake friends without you noticing it.

　　你可以對真正的朋友道出任何你想說的話，而當你和虛假的朋友說話的時候，你要對所說的話題挑三揀四，字斟句酌，可能你自己都沒有意識到這一點。

　　True friends really care about you while fake friends only care about what would be beneficial from you.

　　真正的朋友真心在乎你，而虛假的朋友只在乎從你這兒能得到的利益。

　　Keep your circle small. Having few friends is better than having a lot of fake friends because at least you know that no matter what, they would be there for you while fake friends are bound to leave you.

　　讓自己的圈子小小的。三兩知己比擁有一大堆狐朋狗友要好，因為至少你知道，無論發生什么，真正的朋友都會在你身邊，而虛假的朋友則準備好了要離你而去。

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